I've seen so many of my friends that fall in n out of love, even myself. Some learn to be stronger, smarter or even walling themselves and some still remind the same... But I believe that the ultimate lesson all of us have to learn is unconditional love, which includes not only others but ourselves as well...
Love is simple, Love is bittersweet, Love is temperamental and of cos Love is unconditional!! Love conquers all...
People afraid to love that's of cos, Love hurts.. But, once you've decided to board this train ride, it's a bet to last through the last stop or give a raincheck half way through. Love is a gamble..
I'm always emphasizing this, love ur man/woman wholeheartedly and unconditionally.. Even if it never work out till the end, at least we tried! Life is so unpredictable. Is not easy to find someone you love and having them love you back so treasure every moment n the possible relationship.
Love is not a maybe thing, you know it when u really love someone...
Wednesday, January 9, 2013
Friday, November 9, 2012
Beautiful life it shall be...
After the last trip I'm back from Hongkong, everything seems to change. I'm glad that I actually knew whatever I shld be knowing. Perhaps these shall be the right path.. At this point of time, I must be willing to let go of the life I planned initially so as to have the life ahead that is waiting for me. Even if I stumble, I'm still moving forward.
Well, I've been quite bad mood at times recently, but nevertheless I still put on a smile whenever I am.. it’s time to pause and reflect. I have to become an increasingly better person!! And of cos we are human beings, it's easy to know and say things but however I still have to move forward thou the fear, uncertainty and discomfort are holding on to it. As to create more positive results in our life, we shall replace the word "if only" with "next time" ya... Sounds good ?? :)
A friend of mine told me this: Hey babe, you're braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think!!! ��
Ya... Never never give up!!
And now, the double FF are the best thing in my life! FRIENDS & FOOD!!! Haha!!!
We must do the things we think we can't and that makes us stronger!!!!!!
Well, I've been quite bad mood at times recently, but nevertheless I still put on a smile whenever I am.. it’s time to pause and reflect. I have to become an increasingly better person!! And of cos we are human beings, it's easy to know and say things but however I still have to move forward thou the fear, uncertainty and discomfort are holding on to it. As to create more positive results in our life, we shall replace the word "if only" with "next time" ya... Sounds good ?? :)
A friend of mine told me this: Hey babe, you're braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think!!! ��
Ya... Never never give up!!
And now, the double FF are the best thing in my life! FRIENDS & FOOD!!! Haha!!!
We must do the things we think we can't and that makes us stronger!!!!!!
Wednesday, July 18, 2012
Tuesday, July 17, 2012
The Life Now..
Love triggers me so much that I haven't have time to even love myself.
Now that I'm alone by myself, no choice but to fall into another situation n enjoy it.. thou is pretty lonely at times but I have more time to do my thgs, or even more times for friends n enjoying the freedom.
I believe tat every moment a decision is made can change the course of your life forever.. the very next person stand behind in line or sit next to on an airplane, the very next phone call you make or receive, the very next movie you see or book you read or page you turn could be the one single thing that causes the floodgates to open, and all of the things that you've been waiting for to fall into place..
What are meant to be will be...
Everything happens for a reason :)
Seriously, I'm starting to love myself as I feel the changes in me makes me a better person. Apart from all the love matters, there's so much thgs now that makes me realize alot... but the process of it sometimes seems abit scary cause it's so not me! Having lots of thoughts n rotating in my mind makes me crazy!
Well, life can never be perfect..
Things happening every now n then teaches me alot.. But still, there's this "something" that I will nv forget.. The memories tat will stay in me forever!!
Love every situation in life and be happy:)
Now that I'm alone by myself, no choice but to fall into another situation n enjoy it.. thou is pretty lonely at times but I have more time to do my thgs, or even more times for friends n enjoying the freedom.
I believe tat every moment a decision is made can change the course of your life forever.. the very next person stand behind in line or sit next to on an airplane, the very next phone call you make or receive, the very next movie you see or book you read or page you turn could be the one single thing that causes the floodgates to open, and all of the things that you've been waiting for to fall into place..
What are meant to be will be...
Everything happens for a reason :)
Seriously, I'm starting to love myself as I feel the changes in me makes me a better person. Apart from all the love matters, there's so much thgs now that makes me realize alot... but the process of it sometimes seems abit scary cause it's so not me! Having lots of thoughts n rotating in my mind makes me crazy!
Well, life can never be perfect..
Things happening every now n then teaches me alot.. But still, there's this "something" that I will nv forget.. The memories tat will stay in me forever!!
Love every situation in life and be happy:)
Sunday, October 16, 2011
Happy Birthday to ME!!
It's my birthday!!!!!!!!!!!
Youth is happy because it has the ability to see beauty. Anyone who keeps the ability to see beauty never grows old...
I wish myself good health n good wealth, stay happy always..... most importantly, marry a good good MAN!!
Do u know who deserves a big thank u during my birthday??? Its my mummy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
For ten months, I was just a part of you, little by little I grew inside of you. When my life is dark u serve as my light. When I was inside of u, in me, u already believe...You sacrifice a lot just to let me live.
I hope when it’s my turn to become a mom, I can achieve at least half of what you’ve done cause u did not just give me a life, u also taught me to fight my own strife...
Today’s my birthday, but it should be your day, cause you’re the reason why I am here today.... So in this very special day of mine,
I wanna say Thank You to you, my Mummy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Youth is happy because it has the ability to see beauty. Anyone who keeps the ability to see beauty never grows old...
I wish myself good health n good wealth, stay happy always..... most importantly, marry a good good MAN!!
Do u know who deserves a big thank u during my birthday??? Its my mummy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
For ten months, I was just a part of you, little by little I grew inside of you. When my life is dark u serve as my light. When I was inside of u, in me, u already believe...You sacrifice a lot just to let me live.
I hope when it’s my turn to become a mom, I can achieve at least half of what you’ve done cause u did not just give me a life, u also taught me to fight my own strife...
Today’s my birthday, but it should be your day, cause you’re the reason why I am here today.... So in this very special day of mine,
I wanna say Thank You to you, my Mummy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Monday, September 19, 2011
令女人受用一生的爱情语录！！
1、不是每个男人都是骑着白马的王子，所以，请不要苛求他不够高大和英俊，不要责怪他送给你的只是一双手套而不是九十九朵玫瑰。宝贝们，要知道，不是王子，你才是他永远的公主，他的爱便是让你变成公主的水晶鞋。
2、不是每个男人都能把爱挂在嘴边，所以，请不要在他回答"爱不爱你"不够干脆时心生怀疑，不要让他把这种回答变成一种无奈的习惯。宝贝们，你要学着体会无言的承诺，请相信，当他静静的看着你微笑时，当他轻轻的抚摩你的头发时，当他自然的牵着你的手时，他就是爱你的。
3、不是每个男人都善于反驳，所以，当出现误会而他却沉默不语时，请不要推开他兀自哭红了眼睛。也许在他看来那只是一个无关的女人或者一件他绝不会做的事，他总相信那是事实，就不需要太多解释。宝贝们，不要轻易把这份坚持当做一种默认的表示。难道，你没看到他手足无措的样子？
4、要知道，你的他不是超人或者蝙蝠侠，所以，当他不能在你有困难时第一时间出现。请你不要责难他，因为在你无助时不能守在你的身边，那份担心已经是他最大的惩罚。宝贝们，请记住，当他事后关心的询问时，请给予温柔的回答，告诉他已经没事了，不要牵挂。
5、面子对男子来说比什么都重要。所以，在他的朋友面前，请给他十足的地位。如果他在朋友面前忽略了你，不要任性的以为那是不重视，也许他只是想显出你的温顺。不要介意在人前当个小女人，宝贝们，要知道，那可是被宠爱的女子才有的特权哦。
6、也许男人总搞不懂女人在想什么？所以，当你故意说不而他却真的走开时，请不要发誓一定要好好的惩罚他，要知道，一头雾水的他此刻心里比你还要郁闷。如果你的他总不能领会你的意思，那么，宝贝们，就明白的告诉他吧，他会爱的轻松许多，而你也可以得到你真正想要的，为什么不呢？
7、男人也要有自己的生活。他们也会迷恋游戏，也会想和朋友出去喝酒，打牌。这时，请不要短信电话步步紧逼，也不要问他为什么不带你一块前往。你们自己不也会有女人们私有的空间吗？宝贝们，给彼此足够的空间才会有新鲜的空气。
8、男人也会脆弱，也会突然的莫名情绪低落。所以，当他的脸上写满疲惫，眼中充满厌倦，请不要再去追问是不是不爱你了。要知道，时刻的讨好，谁也做不到。宝贝们，此刻，不要再去问他怎么了，只要安静的陪在他身边就好。
2、不是每个男人都能把爱挂在嘴边，所以，请不要在他回答"爱不爱你"不够干脆时心生怀疑，不要让他把这种回答变成一种无奈的习惯。宝贝们，你要学着体会无言的承诺，请相信，当他静静的看着你微笑时，当他轻轻的抚摩你的头发时，当他自然的牵着你的手时，他就是爱你的。
3、不是每个男人都善于反驳，所以，当出现误会而他却沉默不语时，请不要推开他兀自哭红了眼睛。也许在他看来那只是一个无关的女人或者一件他绝不会做的事，他总相信那是事实，就不需要太多解释。宝贝们，不要轻易把这份坚持当做一种默认的表示。难道，你没看到他手足无措的样子？
4、要知道，你的他不是超人或者蝙蝠侠，所以，当他不能在你有困难时第一时间出现。请你不要责难他，因为在你无助时不能守在你的身边，那份担心已经是他最大的惩罚。宝贝们，请记住，当他事后关心的询问时，请给予温柔的回答，告诉他已经没事了，不要牵挂。
5、面子对男子来说比什么都重要。所以，在他的朋友面前，请给他十足的地位。如果他在朋友面前忽略了你，不要任性的以为那是不重视，也许他只是想显出你的温顺。不要介意在人前当个小女人，宝贝们，要知道，那可是被宠爱的女子才有的特权哦。
6、也许男人总搞不懂女人在想什么？所以，当你故意说不而他却真的走开时，请不要发誓一定要好好的惩罚他，要知道，一头雾水的他此刻心里比你还要郁闷。如果你的他总不能领会你的意思，那么，宝贝们，就明白的告诉他吧，他会爱的轻松许多，而你也可以得到你真正想要的，为什么不呢？
7、男人也要有自己的生活。他们也会迷恋游戏，也会想和朋友出去喝酒，打牌。这时，请不要短信电话步步紧逼，也不要问他为什么不带你一块前往。你们自己不也会有女人们私有的空间吗？宝贝们，给彼此足够的空间才会有新鲜的空气。
8、男人也会脆弱，也会突然的莫名情绪低落。所以，当他的脸上写满疲惫，眼中充满厌倦，请不要再去追问是不是不爱你了。要知道，时刻的讨好，谁也做不到。宝贝们，此刻，不要再去问他怎么了，只要安静的陪在他身边就好。
9、总说，男人不懂女人心，可有时候，你们不也常常忽略他们的感受？有义务陪女朋友，又没有权利放弃工作。在坚强的标志下，男人们只能把所有的事情一肩扛。生活本来就很让人疲惫，当他为了未来打拼的时候，宝贝们，你们不该再让他们太累。
~LOVE~LOVE~LOVE~LOVE~LOVE~LOVE~LOVE~LOVE~LOVE~LOVE~LOVE~
Over the weekends..
Birthday celebration for my best friend, Euweng at Northpoint Partyworld last Friday... Had a great time that night as Ong n Vernon turn up as well. Really misses the times we had fun together!
Happy Birthday Euweng!!!!!!!!!!!!
As for Saturday, I went Avatar follow by NANA... as usual the same group....
And Sunday... nothing much, woke up early thou I'm still having hangover but got to fetch my parents from the airport... Dad knew that I just woke up n didn't have any meals yet, so he brought me to my first meal at one of the eating place at Tampimes, ordered big prawn n intestine mee, fried oyster egg and mix-pig organs soup.. AND, they are not eating at all so I've to finish all up!!! Daddy is always so nice n sweet, but he is seriously feeding me like a PIG!! Hahahaha!!
One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life.... that word is LOVE!!
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
Raining morning..
I woke up 6am this morning.. Early yea!!! Had breakfast and had to run some errands then back hm, got my hand mask done up for 20mins, change my iPhone casing, tiding up my drawers n now I'm getting sleepy!
Guess I really have to go back to my dreamland for a couple of hours, feeling reckless as I'm having the stupid stomach cramps... Hate it to the max!! Think of going for facial in the noon, hopefully I do have time to do so...
Hoo!~!~! Tonight is the nite!! Going Jb in the evening for seafood dinner with Belinda, Jess, Victor & Willy... Can't wait to eat my fav crab.. Hehe!! And I'm going to have "lok lok" for supper before I'm back to Sg... :)
I seriously live to eat!!! Haha....
Eating is really an enjoyment in life! !!
Guess I really have to go back to my dreamland for a couple of hours, feeling reckless as I'm having the stupid stomach cramps... Hate it to the max!! Think of going for facial in the noon, hopefully I do have time to do so...
Hoo!~!~! Tonight is the nite!! Going Jb in the evening for seafood dinner with Belinda, Jess, Victor & Willy... Can't wait to eat my fav crab.. Hehe!! And I'm going to have "lok lok" for supper before I'm back to Sg... :)
I seriously live to eat!!! Haha....
Eating is really an enjoyment in life! !!
Monday, September 12, 2011
Finally for Eye Check up!
I woke up early today!! First thing I did was call up Lasik Center for my enchantment assessment as my eye sight is getting from bad to worst....enhancement needs to be done to help me achieve better vision. I've been dragging it for so long, refuse to go on another surgery again cos I really afraid of the surgery process.... Sigh! Hopefully this time round will be a prefect one, keep me away from all worries n hassle forever..... not everyone will achieve a clear 20/20 vision after one procedure, and I'm the unlucky ones... :(
My Appointment 15-09-2011 at 11am, and the consultant says it will end roughly 4.30pm....!!! Freaking long hours!
The doctor needs to do a check to determine whether I'm able to go for a LASIK enhancement, he will re-evaluate my corneas with the same methods used prior to my first LASIK procedure... Among other evaluations, my doctor will have to check to see whether I have enough corneal thickness for a second surgery.
The surgery will have to make appointment 2days later...
Boring thing is.. After my enhancement, I will have to follow the same post-operative instructions that were given to me the last time i had my surgery done.. and i seriously have to follow exactly to avoid the risk of having eye infection.....
One of the instructions.....* NO MAKE UP/EYE MAKE-UP for a week or more!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sianz...
But no choice I have to do so.....
"A beautiful eye makes silence eloquent, a kind eye makes contradiction an assent, an enraged eye makes beauty deformed. This little member gives life to every other part about us; and I believe the story of Argus implies no more than that the eye is in every part; that is to say, every other part would be mutilated were not its force represented more by the eye than even by itself."
-Joseph Addison-
My Appointment 15-09-2011 at 11am, and the consultant says it will end roughly 4.30pm....!!! Freaking long hours!
The doctor needs to do a check to determine whether I'm able to go for a LASIK enhancement, he will re-evaluate my corneas with the same methods used prior to my first LASIK procedure... Among other evaluations, my doctor will have to check to see whether I have enough corneal thickness for a second surgery.
The surgery will have to make appointment 2days later...
Boring thing is.. After my enhancement, I will have to follow the same post-operative instructions that were given to me the last time i had my surgery done.. and i seriously have to follow exactly to avoid the risk of having eye infection.....
One of the instructions.....* NO MAKE UP/EYE MAKE-UP for a week or more!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sianz...
But no choice I have to do so.....
"A beautiful eye makes silence eloquent, a kind eye makes contradiction an assent, an enraged eye makes beauty deformed. This little member gives life to every other part about us; and I believe the story of Argus implies no more than that the eye is in every part; that is to say, every other part would be mutilated were not its force represented more by the eye than even by itself."
-Joseph Addison-
Sunday, September 11, 2011
I'm back In my blog!!
Hi everyone, it's been so long since I blog!!
ALright, I would say I've almost forgotten about it... Haha!!
NOthing much, still the same old daily stuff.... EAt, hanging around, WOrk, party....drinking... Catching up with lots HKG and Taiwan series...!! I could just easily watch it on my iphone, cool!!
Well, as for pictures tat I've taken the past few months, I think that will be tons of it... u guys can refer from my FACEBOOK ya! :>
I promise that I will try to blog often!! :)
I've Something to share with all women, ladies & girls...!!
什么样的男人不值得去爱????
一：没有目标的男人不值得去爱。碌碌无为的灵魂是悲哀的，虽然都是平凡的人，但鸟雀尚有觅食之举，更何况是一个大男人呢？目标不一定要伟大，却至少该知 自己明天朝什么方向走吧？！
二：不懂的宽容的男人不值得去爱。都说男人的胸怀该是海，宽阔而深沉。若面 对个因一些小事每天和你叽叽歪歪的男人也受不了吧！懂得原谅，是种成熟 更是一种艺术。
三：气量小的男人不值得去爱。因为张三今天下楼的时候没和他打招呼，于是就一直耿耿于怀，记恨于心的男人不仅可笑而且可怜。我们且用同情的目光看看就罢了吧！
四：热爱花花蝶蝶的男人不值得去爱。花心大萝卜总有他自身的吸引人之处，被引诱 也是人之常情。他们往往有着舌灿莲花的本领，女人的一个眼神一个犹豫都能被印在心里找到攻破的方法。若是没有一定的修行道术，那样的男人还是离的越远越安全。
五：视钱如命的男人不值得去爱。有一句话这样说：男人若是对一个女人有兴趣，会不惜花钱；若是男人爱上一个女人，会不惜花钱外加自己的时间。
六：没有同情心的男人不值得去爱。若是你遇到了一个会怜悯着街上流浪的小动物的男人，那么恭喜你，他更会好好的对待你。
七：肆意贬低前任女友的男人不值得去爱。爱情里没有对错，一定要分出个是非曲直的男人就显得小家子气了。分手后还是在那边喋喋不休的贬低着前任女友的话，那么你现在就可以拿起包走人了—— 谁能保证他会不会在下一任女友前这样评价你呢？
八：自以为是自尊自大的男人不值得去爱。在他们的眼里，自己就是世界的中心，你你不过是他的陪衬。他的思想和举止是天，不能去侵犯。那样的爱是不公平且没有尊严可言的。无论他有多优秀，离开才是正果。
九：有着强烈占有欲望的男人不值得去爱。爱是一株需要空气和阳光的植物，专制霸道都会勒杀它。你是个自由独立的个体，你不该是任何一个人的私有财产。
十：没有责任感的男人不值得去爱。这点应该不需要多解释了吧。
TRUE ENOUGH???
ALright, I would say I've almost forgotten about it... Haha!!
NOthing much, still the same old daily stuff.... EAt, hanging around, WOrk, party....drinking... Catching up with lots HKG and Taiwan series...!! I could just easily watch it on my iphone, cool!!
Well, as for pictures tat I've taken the past few months, I think that will be tons of it... u guys can refer from my FACEBOOK ya! :>
I promise that I will try to blog often!! :)
I've Something to share with all women, ladies & girls...!!
什么样的男人不值得去爱????
一：没有目标的男人不值得去爱。碌碌无为的灵魂是悲哀的，虽然都是平凡的人，但鸟雀尚有觅食之举，更何况是一个大男人呢？目标不一定要伟大，却至少该知 自己明天朝什么方向走吧？！
二：不懂的宽容的男人不值得去爱。都说男人的胸怀该是海，宽阔而深沉。若面 对个因一些小事每天和你叽叽歪歪的男人也受不了吧！懂得原谅，是种成熟 更是一种艺术。
三：气量小的男人不值得去爱。因为张三今天下楼的时候没和他打招呼，于是就一直耿耿于怀，记恨于心的男人不仅可笑而且可怜。我们且用同情的目光看看就罢了吧！
四：热爱花花蝶蝶的男人不值得去爱。花心大萝卜总有他自身的吸引人之处，被引诱 也是人之常情。他们往往有着舌灿莲花的本领，女人的一个眼神一个犹豫都能被印在心里找到攻破的方法。若是没有一定的修行道术，那样的男人还是离的越远越安全。
五：视钱如命的男人不值得去爱。有一句话这样说：男人若是对一个女人有兴趣，会不惜花钱；若是男人爱上一个女人，会不惜花钱外加自己的时间。
六：没有同情心的男人不值得去爱。若是你遇到了一个会怜悯着街上流浪的小动物的男人，那么恭喜你，他更会好好的对待你。
七：肆意贬低前任女友的男人不值得去爱。爱情里没有对错，一定要分出个是非曲直的男人就显得小家子气了。分手后还是在那边喋喋不休的贬低着前任女友的话，那么你现在就可以拿起包走人了—— 谁能保证他会不会在下一任女友前这样评价你呢？
八：自以为是自尊自大的男人不值得去爱。在他们的眼里，自己就是世界的中心，你你不过是他的陪衬。他的思想和举止是天，不能去侵犯。那样的爱是不公平且没有尊严可言的。无论他有多优秀，离开才是正果。
九：有着强烈占有欲望的男人不值得去爱。爱是一株需要空气和阳光的植物，专制霸道都会勒杀它。你是个自由独立的个体，你不该是任何一个人的私有财产。
十：没有责任感的男人不值得去爱。这点应该不需要多解释了吧。
TRUE ENOUGH???
Wednesday, March 16, 2011
Changing to a better life...
Hmm, I go to GYM!!! Believe it?? Hahaha!! Getting myself tone up.... the last time i actually exercise was during my school time, beside golfing la. That's very bad, I realise my body is so inflexible... I cant even do sit up.. I cant get up!!! hahaha!!
I went to California fitness gym at Ngee Ann City.. It is a new located from the one at Coffee club... Yea, pretty nice and cosy. In fact, I really enjoy it thou i always got muscle aching after that, haha!!
Of cos, I go spa as well... got to really pamper myself... Shopping also!! Keke....
Dun know why, even thou things are getting bad (Abt Some issue with someone) anyway, i still think abt all the things in the past.... it can never be forgotten.. Sometimes sweet memories can never be forget.. whenever u think of it, is always warm in heart :)
But he just always like to irritated me and act so immature..
Sigh... Let god n faith decide my life path... We'll never know wat will happen in future....
But i really hope all these unhappiness n ridiculous doing can stop and wipe off asap so that things will not get even worst.. (Which i think its alrd getting from bad to worst)..
If you make the unconditional commitment to reach your most important goals, if the strength of your decision is sufficient, you will find the way and the power to achieve your goals.
I went to California fitness gym at Ngee Ann City.. It is a new located from the one at Coffee club... Yea, pretty nice and cosy. In fact, I really enjoy it thou i always got muscle aching after that, haha!!
Of cos, I go spa as well... got to really pamper myself... Shopping also!! Keke....
Dun know why, even thou things are getting bad (Abt Some issue with someone) anyway, i still think abt all the things in the past.... it can never be forgotten.. Sometimes sweet memories can never be forget.. whenever u think of it, is always warm in heart :)
But he just always like to irritated me and act so immature..
Sigh... Let god n faith decide my life path... We'll never know wat will happen in future....
But i really hope all these unhappiness n ridiculous doing can stop and wipe off asap so that things will not get even worst.. (Which i think its alrd getting from bad to worst)..
If you make the unconditional commitment to reach your most important goals, if the strength of your decision is sufficient, you will find the way and the power to achieve your goals.
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